I finally finished The Shack last night. So, for all of my friends who have been chomping at the bit to talk to me about it, it's safe now.This book hit on a couple of subjects that I really needed to hear at this point in my life, namely my perception of God as a Father, and the issue of forgiveness.
Some quotes from Chapter 16:
Forgiveness is not about forgetting. It is about letting go of another person's throat.
In Jesus, I have forgiven all humans for their sins against me, but only some choose relationship.
But I do (love him), not for what he's become, but for the broken child that has been twisted by his pain.
Forgiveness does not create a relationship. Unless people speak the truth about what they have done and change their mind and behavior, a relationship of trust is not possible. When you forgive someone you certainly release them from judgment, but without true change, no real relationship can be established.
5 comments:
I only have a few chapters left and can't wait to finish it. Our AIMers get here tomorrow so I doubt I will get it read any time soon. Maybe I can take some time to finish it up tonight - anything to not have to clean house!
Sounds like one I need to read. The quotes were very very good.
I'm with you, Toni - reading The Shack is much better than house cleaning.
Well, it's a different kind of "house cleaning"...
Your first quote really was one that hit home with me. I actually had to put the book down at that moment. That's a concept I learned long ago when I was unable to truly forgive in my heart.
I learned that just because I forgive, doesn't make the action against me right...but forgiving sets me free and makes me right in my heart and with God...which is truly the relationship that matters.
I'm glad you liked the book!
WOW! I have GOT to read this book! This book deals with an issue I still struggle with 5 years down the road from THE event. I think I need confirma-tion that it's ok if I can't forget and if I choose not seek to have a relationship with this person who has no intention of acknowledging their actions were wrong and hurtful. Honestly, I'm still working on the true forgiveness part...
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